You see her everyday, share a bed, a bathroom and the mystery begins to slowly fade away. Being comfortable around someone is great, but it is also boring - and sometimes a wee bit gross. The every day monotony causes us to lose the sexy in marital sex. But, why settle for ho-hum, get it done intercourse? Don't sit around and reminisce about what used to be... bring the sexy back!
Follow these 5 simple steps and produce a passionate chain reaction.
1. Surprise her with flowers. I know, sending flowers is an old stand by, but it is an important opener. I'm not talking about your standard red roses. This is your opportunity to show your thoughtful, romantic side. Go online and pick a beautiful arrangement inspired by her favorite color. Or, pick the lilies she had in her bridal bouquet. Write a simple message on the card telling your lady how she inspired your selection.
2. Send the flowers to her place of employment. There is nothing better than getting flowers than receiving them in front of an audience. All the ladies will not only oohh and ahhh over the unexpected gift, they will remind her how lucky she is to have a catch like you. She will love being the center of attention, and secretly thrilled to be the object of their jealousy. With her spirits and confidence lifted, she is now primed for step three.
3. The next day take it up a notch. Send her text messages to raise her blood pressure. Early in the day text "Why I love you." Then send multiple emails throughout the day describing in detail why she is "the one." For example, "You've seen me at my best and my worst, yet love me anyway," or "You make me feel cherished." As the day progresses, make the messages more intimate. Like, "Because you skinny dipped with me at Hollow Wood Lake," or "Because you know just how to work your tongue." Don't forget to throw in a few raunchy compliments, regarding her most attractive physical attributes.
4. Plan a private date with plenty of opportunity. There are a couple ways to do the casual romantic date. Get rid of the kid's and serve dinner at home. Pick up a movie. It can be a chick flick or an x-rated title, whatever will turn HER on. Grab a blanket and snuggle up on the couch. Or pick up a pizza and a bottle of wine then have an impromptu picnic somewhere scenic. Keep it intimate! Gaze into her eyes, stroke her arm and the side of her neck. Whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Take your time and build anticipation.
5. Close the deal. All this preparation should have your lady it just the right frame of mind. Make the most of the situation. When it is time for the big moment, don't retreat to the bedroom! Get it on, on the coach, on the kitchen counter between dinner and dessert, or in the backseat of the car. Having sex in an unfamiliar place is just the excitement needed for the hottest sex ever.
Veronica Awbrey is the author of Make Her Toes Curl: A Man's Guide to Romancing the Modern Woman. For more ideas to ignite passion in your relationship, download a free copy at http://relationshipadvisor.info/
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